Terminate your relationship with pain. How do you do that? You stop running and trying to separate from it. With humility, you receive the gift of what the pain is trying to tell you. The act of listening heals the divide. Then you can turn the pain into something beautiful. However, more important than all of this, Is the realization, I am not my pain. I Am, The All-Pervading, Limitless Presence, Which sees and and recognizes the pain.