An ignorant woman says, "I am angry because of what he/she/ the world did to me. I have every right to be angry. You would be angry too." An ordinary woman says, "Yes, I have anger. I try to control it but sometimes I can't. It just erupts and there is nothing I can do about it." A wise woman says, "Anger is impersonal. I do not identify with it. I watch it come and go."